
The Pre-Wedding Phase
The Wedding Day
Dressing
The bride's wedding dress was a plain white one. It was made by her friend in
the evening of Thursday with no special patterns and forms. The bride said that
she was the first one who wore a white wedding dress in the area. The groom
bought himself a new suit.
Since the entire wedding was rushed, the ceremonial dressing of the bride took
place on the evening of Thursday, just after the buying of the bride's wreath.
The bride sat in a chair near the centre of the room. The wreath [vinochok] was
placed on a wedding bread [kolach], which was held by the starosta. The mother
of the bride took the wreath and blessed her daughter. The wreath was placed
upon the bride's head. The bride and her mother kissed each other three times
and her father repeated the blessing. After the brothers and sisters of the
bride and other people came to bless her, a veil was placed on the bride's
head, accompanied with ritual songs. When the people finished singing, the
musicians played. Food was served. People danced and ate and entertained
themselves.
Blessing
[blahoslovennia] and Wedding procession [pokhid]
Typically, before the bride and groom went to church, they both knelt and bowed
three times in front of the bride's parents to get their blessing. The
musicians played violin and dulcimer music at the time. After the blessing, the
bride and groom rode in a wagon pulled by horses to church together with their
two attendants.
There were no priests stationed near Swan Plain, so the wedding couple, the best
man and the groom's brother left early in the morning in a horse and buggy for
the nearest larger town, 18 miles away. They met several people from both
extended families there, but had to travel still further for a priest. They
rented the only car in the region to continue their journey.
Church
marriage ceremony [vinchannia]
It was dark by the time they found a priest and started the church service. The
priest read a very short service in English. The couple was asked to say only
two words, "I will." The wedding ceremony ended after one of groom's friends
signed the wedding certificate as the witness.
Photographs
Because of the long and difficult journey to the church, the groom had not put
on his new suit and the bride was still wearing a large sheepskin coat
[kozhukh] in the unheated church. Therefore, the couple refused the offer to
have a picture taken after the ceremony. It was becoming popular to take
wedding photographs by that time.
Wedding train [poizd]
After the bride and groom returned to Swan Plain, they each went directly to
their respective parents' home. After a while, the groom and his entourage
travelled to the vesillia at the bride's house.
Celebrations
in the bride's house [vesillia u molodoi]
The vesillia at the bride's home started on Saturday, where people had gathered
even before the bride had returned. The celebration of the vesillia in general
lasted for several days. Wedding meals typically consisted of many courses,
including chicken soup, boiled chicken meat, pork, meatballs, cabbage rolls,
cider, homebrew and home made beer.
The presentation of gifts [darovannia]
Typically, a ceremonial presentation of gifts took place late in the evening. A
dish was put out for presentation and people gave change and dollar bills. Some
gave small gifts like towels, cups and dishes. The bride and groom received
some $ 40 in cash in total.
Celebrations
in the groom's house [vesillia u molodoho]
Many of the guests that were at the bride's wedding joined the bridal couple as
the bride and groom left for the groom's home. They were welcomed into the new
reception with music and applause. It was already sunrise on Monday morning
when the married couple and their guests arrived. They hid the
bride from future in-laws and dressed up an old man. The in-laws said that they
did not want the bride as she was too ugly but the bride' parents kept
insisting that their daughter was beautiful. There was joking and singing all
this time. Finally, the true bride was allowed forth, knelt before her new
parents and was then invited to come into the home. More celebrating and eating
followed.
* The description of this part is based on the following case
studies:
1. Nahachewsky, Andriy. "The Ukrainian Wedding: A Case Study." U of A (April
1983). 20 pp. 1983.004.
2. Procyshyn, Mary. "A Comparative Study of Three Ukrainian Weddings." U of
Manitoba (1983). 17 pp. 1983.046
These materials are deposited in the Ukrainian Folklore Archives at the
University of Alberta.
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